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Doubts of a Wife on her Husband and Leaving the House is a Kind of Injustice.

Question:

My problem is that I have a dispute with my husband. I left the marital home after seven months of doubts. After hinting to me that he was communicating with another woman on the phone, and when he tried to reconcile I refused. I said to him, “I rest my case to Allah for what you are doing”. He said: “Allah will judge between us, I am oppressed”. I also told him: “Allah will judge between us for what you are doing”. He completely denies the existence of any betrayal on his part, and that I am only imagining, despite his confession.

Sheikh my question is: I do not want to be unjust, and I cannot forgo my right of been wronged, and I have supplicated to Allah to show me who between us is wrong, and who has been wronged, and I do not want to course him, then by which evil befalls him, or I become unjust. How do I know? Is it possible that Allah will guide me through a dream or other things to know who is the oppressor and who is oppressed?

Answer:

Praise be to Allah, and may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon the Messenger of Allah, and on his family and companions, after that;

You have wronged your husband by accusing him of forbidden relations based on doubts that have no clear evidence. The basic principle of a Muslim is innocence. Then by your leaving of the house without his permission and with no excuse, and your insisting on this despite your husband's attempt to reform.

Then you have to repent to Allah, and to return back to your husband, and to live with him in a good way, and have good thinking about him. For your interest, we recommend that you contact our consulting department. And Allah Knows the best.

Source of the Fatwa:

Fatwa Issued by: Islam web.

Fatwa no.: (377338).

Original Fatwa in Arabic language:

 

السؤال:

مشكلتي أني على خلاف مع زوجي، وتركت منزل الزوجية بعد شك سبعة أشهر، وبعدما لمح لي بأنه يتواصل هاتفيا مع امرأة أخرى، والآن عندما حاول الصلح رفضت،... سؤالي يا شيخ: أنا لا أريد أن أكون ظالمة، ولا أستطيع أن أترك حقي كمظلومة، ودعوت الله بأن يدلني على من الظالم، ومن المظلوم، ولا أريد أن أدعو عليه، فيصيبه شر، أو أكون ظالمة. كيف أعلم؟ وهل من الممكن أن يدلني الله برؤيا أو غيرها من الظالم ومن المظلوم.

الإجابة:

الحمد لله، والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله، وعلى آله وصحبه، أما بعد:

 فقد ظلمت زوجك باتهامه بالعلاقات المحرمة لمجرد الشكوك من غير بينة ظاهرة، فالأصل في المسلم السلامة، والواجب إحسان الظنّ به إذا لم تظهر منه ريبة.

ثمّ بترك البيت بغير إذنه دون عذر، وإصرارك على ذلك رغم محاولة زوجك الإصلاح.

فالواجب عليك أن تتوبي إلى الله تعالى، وترجعي إلى زوجك، وتعاشريه بالمعروف، وتحسني الظن به.

وللفائدة ننصحك بالتواصل مع قسم الاستشارات بموقعنا.

والله أعلم. 

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